Today marks a milestone in my life. Today, this is my 255th post! Today I celebrate the 34th anniversary of my 21st birthday! Today I was given the opportunity to celebrate The Buffalo Side of Double Nickels!
What is the Buffalo Side of the Double Nickels you ask?
The Buffalo side of the double nickels is many things. It is a landmark!
** As one gets older, most, not all, have learned from all the “mistakes” they have made in life so far. At the double nickel landmark you have learned so much from those mistakes, that you now possess a wisdom that you wished you had in your early years but realize you were too young to recognize when the lesson in front of you. You learned and you value the lesson that you were given.
** You have learned that when someone tells you that you have made a mistake, you can boldly look them in the eye and tell them that you did not make a mistake. You can tell them that you gave yourself the opportunity to learn something new and to grow from it. After all, you would not be the person you are today, if all those “opportunities” had not come about.
** You listen to what others say and you now know, from experiences learned, what they really mean and what they really want. Not much can be hidden from you as you have done it all, maybe, and you have learned. And, now you have the opportunity to make a wise decision, or possibly to share the wisdom that you have earned in your life.
** You value life in a way that you never realized could be possible. You find out who your friends really are, and you know that the good ones are few and far between. You value those that have traveled your life with you and you cherish the ones that at this time in life you have made. And you know that those in the latter group will be there with you, as will the few from younger days, for the remainder of your days, because of the wisdom and the grace you have learned and the understanding you share.
** You wake up every morning and value the fact that you are here! And you think about what you can do today that will make a difference to those around you, no matter how small that difference might be. And you smile to yourself because in some way you know how you have positively touched the life of another person, and while they might not yet realize it, you do!
** You have realized that you have to laugh at yourself before you can laugh at anything else in the world. And you find yourself laughing at yourself now just about every day, and you find that it makes you happy!
** You enjoy the wisdom of those who are older than you because you now get it!
** There are those who are your age that are still concerned with “looks” and you realize that even though your hair has grayed, your chin has doubled, and your weight has increased, that you still are a magnificent person! The hair is not gray, but platinum. The chin is not doubled, OK maybe it is. And while your weight has increased that is just one of the many trophies of hitting the buffalo side of the double nickels! I have not found out yet, but I am sure that “looks” don’t matter much and never did to Saint Peter! And I heard through the grapevine that he is fond of buffaloes!
** You have learned that you can catch more flies with honey than you can with vinegar.
** And you now know how important it is to tell those that are important to you that they are important to you!
To all of those who have hit the double nickels before me, I honor you! To those who are approaching the double nickels, continue to realize the opportunities as they arise. To those who shared this special day with me at dinner tonight, I love you all, and I thank you for being my friends, and for being in my life! To my husband, you are the love of my life and I look forward to laughing with you daily for the remainder of my days!
Hugs to all today! I look forward gently touching all of your lives, and I thank you most humbly for touching mine!
Oh, to be young and only 55 again! Or even 25! But would I want to go back to a time when I was not only young, but stupid? I think I could only be convinced to do it all over again if I could keep everything I have learned. Ah, yes, there’s the rub. Wisdom, as you have so wisely shown, is worth it.
I would go back if I could with the wisdom learned! Thank you for your comment!
B, you are much to wise for a 21 year old. I do the laughing part most of the time; that is laugh at myself. I might just have to share this with family. Wonderful words of wisdom. I thank you. Seeker.
P.S. Since I enjoy your wisdom, I must be younger than you. Tee hee. 😛
56 not 21! 🙂
what month?
March…you? Age?
Hahaha , you are still older by a few months. Phew… definite you are one wise cat, B. Hats off to you. I maintain my inner child. July.
Time to go to work. You have a good day now.
Thank you! You have a great day at work Seeker!
Congratulations :))
Thank you! And the lemon grass curry chicken looks really good!
Barb. Do you think thats why we don’t have a Harley?
The Harley has to do with a private joke…and thank you for commenting Ethel! And thanks to you and Dale for celebrating with me The Buffalo Side of Double Nickels! Hugs chica!
Happy 21st Birthday…. again! Love this post. DH would love to have those buffalo’s in his collection! Great photo btw 🙂
Thank you! And DH is who?
Dear Husband…
Having surpassed the ‘double nickel’ stage of life your thoughts only remind me of how true everything you wrote about is true. Too bad we didn’t realize these things when we were much younger, but it is the experiences of life that gives us this wisdom. Happy Birthday to you and thanks for this great write up.
Congratulations!
Your words have touched on the very things my own thought’s were pondering of late…